Community rules

Draft effective September 9, 2026

GaydarLove should feel direct, adult, private, and decent. These rules apply to profiles, photos, chats, and in-person plans.

Adults only

Everyone must be 18 or older. Report anyone who appears under 18 immediately. Never upload, request, or share sexual content involving a minor.

Consent is continuous

A photo unlock is permission to view, not permission to save, repost, identify, or pressure. A yes can become a no. Stop when someone declines, blocks, or asks you to stop.

Treat people like people

No harassment, threats, slurs, humiliation, impersonation, outing, blackmail, scams, or repeated unwanted contact. Preferences are allowed; cruelty is not.

Keep private things private

Do not screenshot or share profiles, chats, locations, health details, or private photos without clear permission. Never use distance and direction to track someone.

Meet safely

Meet in public first, tell someone where you are going, arrange your own transportation, and leave if anything feels wrong. Call emergency services when there is immediate danger.

Report serious harm

Use Report for suspected minors, threats, coercion, non-consensual imagery, stalking, or scams. Reports go to the app owner and may lead to an immediate suspension while evidence is reviewed.